Unfortunately, his wife was not able to obtain a visa to come to the U.S. When it became clear that the family would not be able to make the journey here, Owojori took it upon herself to learn from his wife the end-of-life rituals that needed to be observed in accordance with their culture.

She then worked out a plan to arrange for her patient’s cremation and customs. She invested in clothing that would enable her to participate in the proper ceremony, and she tenderly fulfilled the traditions that were so important to the family, and in which they were able to participate through a video link.

Finally, Owojori undertook the task of escorting her patient’s remains all the way to China, where she made possible the reunification of husband and wife in their home village.

Without a second thought, Owojori paid for the flight and incidental costs to build the bridge, which allowed this family to navigate the loss of a husband and father in their own way.

Owojori’s supervisor said: “I have been party to and events throughout my nursing career, but this really does restore faith in the selfless mission we have all been called to. Grace never once publicized what she was doing, she never asked for any consideration for the personal time sacrificed, and despite being offered financial assistance by those around her, she was keen to do this on her own and for her patient.”

In recognition of the extraordinary care and respect she extended to this patient and his family, and to every patient in her service, St. Francis Medical Center was proud to present to Owojori with the .

A surprised Owojori accepted her award to the applause of hospital leaders, staff and her ICU colleagues and, through tears, she humbly stated, “It is a privilege to care for and serve my patients.”

St. Francis Medical Center gives its special thanks to Grace, for so lovingly and compassionately honoring her patients in life and in death.